That's what I'm hoping to do, I casually bring her up more in conversation than I ever did before but not all at once, just slowly and now we end up talking about her almost daily.
I would never really plan it, because like you said it would increase stress, it's just going to be relatively hard trying to figure out when because everybody lives at home while we're in college, I really wish I had taken out a loan and gotten an apartment now but c'est la vie.
Booze is the plan but I don't want anyone to be to the point of passing out, that's definitely not a fantasy of mine.
I figure a shot or two of something strong so I'll be sober enough to not have any issues but they'll be loosened up.
