Go here: sexualcontrol.com Now I know many of you are going to read this and then curl up in a little ball in the corner and cry, like a little spoiled brat. Others will get pissed off, and get all up in a huff and puff, and make absolutely no rational sense. That's fine. I understand why you would choose to be pissed. Here's how it is, and this applies to all responses as well:
Every human being has within them the potential to do or be anything. From gay to killer, from pedophile to saint. Anyone can be gay. Anyone can be a pedophile. Anyone can be a good person. Those that have the most control and are most successful in life have within them the potential to do the vilest of things. The opposite is true. Each human being has certain tendencies for behaviors different than another person. A person can have a more-pronounced attraction to the same sex or to a child. Such tendencies or desires DO NOT equal acting out on them. Desires DO NOT make you a pedophile. It's that act that does. And this is where the key to life is found. What it boils down to is choice. Yes, some of you are pissed right now, because saying such things makes you responsible. You can't blame your mom or your uncle, or a bad childhood. Many people have been molested and not ended up being molesters. It's choice, stupid. We have free will. You can make a choice. The sooner you realize this the more powerful you become. Accepting responsibility and recognizing you are free to make a choice actually makes it easier to make a choice - it gives you power, confidence, and liberty. It may not seem so, but it does. When you blame your behavior on other things you voluntarily place yourself in bondage to the belief that something or someone else is responsible. You rationalize and choose to believe something is forcing you. To believe this is a choice. YOU are choosing to place yourself in bondage to a falsehood. This is how you loose your freedom (at some point the law will take it from you if you can't choose for yourself). You don't have to believe anything. But don't tell us you didn't choose to believe nothing. You have free will. Not only is free will a gift, but it is also a declaration - a command. You are free, damn it. Don't try to deny or hide from it. Don't lie to yourself or anyone else by saying you are not. And don't let anyone take it from you! Accept this and use your free will proactively and you will come to understand the true power of free will. You WILL be more powerful. You will be happier, and have more self control. You don't have to hate yourself for the past - this, too, is a choice. Take your free will back! You will be victorious. You will truly be free. For those of you who are pissed - you're choosing to be pissed. But just give this a small effort. I dare you. Remember tomorrow when you have a desire to do something you know you shouldn't. Demand your freedom. Choose to make the choice. Only you can give free will back to yourself. That's the irony. It's always been there, it's just that you made a choice to let others tell you it wasn't. It is still in your hands. Choose to make choices that will not destroy you or another person. You are responsible - don't fear it. To accept that you are responsible actually doesn't hurt as much as you would think. Accept responsibility and that you have free will. Literally over night, your life will improve.
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Okay, for the most part I agree with what you have to say, but there really no reason to repeatedly post the same thing all your doing is spamming the boards and coming across all preachy and nobody other than Jesus freaks want to be preached to. So maybe next time you want to make a point simply choose a different way of going about it.
What the hell does any of your rambling about this common-sense choice/personal responsibility shit have to do with "overcoming sexual addiction"? Get lost, pal.
By posting this topic, OP is "making a choice" to be a self-righteous, condescending jerk. :)
I'd be more likely to read and/or care if that wasn't an impenetrable (no pun intended) wall of text.
i came to this site to find stuff to jerk it to, like everyone else here. my prediction...people (myself included) will visit the OP's site for about 5 min go "hmmm interesting" and go on about their day, stroking it (or fingering it for the few awesome ladies out there) to scantily clad preteens and hard core beatiality/scat/WTF is that but i like it. ok now that ive said my piece, i have a date with my right hand to attend
Freedom has no limit, Freedom is like a leaf falling from a tree in the autumn, where and when it falls can be unpredictable dew to thousands of factors wind.... the weight of the leaf itself how high it is etc it falls when it wants wherever it wants,
FREEDOM IS INFINITY and everyone of us on this planet has our own take on our own kind freedom! To be free is to do as you please and not told from someone like yourself Original poster who WILL NEVER BE FREE! unless... you open your mind to the impossible unpredictable and unchangeable!
