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02 Sep 2012 9:48PM
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so, this past friday night i had my first ever MMF threesome with my wife. it was me, her and a guy i know who came over, had a few drinks, and really fucked the hell out of her with me.
thing is, it wasn't all that great. there were a few things here and there that were really bothering me or throwing me off my game. so in the end it wasn't all that enjoyable for me.
i know my wife had lots of fun, and i let the guy really go to town on her, so i'm happy for her.
and it's definetely not one of those things where i'm now turned off the whole idea. i enjoyed watching her get fucked, however when they would converse and dirty talk to each other halfway through, it really wasn't doing it for me. i guess next time a no talking rule is in effect, cause that shit was really messing with my head lol.

also, for some fucked up reason, watching her getting fucked by this guy wasn't bothering me half as much as watching her make out with him. what the fuck is that all about??
i just know now, that there's tweaks to be made to the rules and situations in the future. and perhaps next time, i shall do this with a guy i know a little more then the guy i chose.
Despite the things that "bothered me" i feel good knowing i did something my wife really enjoyed, and i love her more then ever now. knowing we can do things like this and not have it affect our relationship in a negative way.
i'll definetely be trying a MMF threesome with my wife again. however, now that i've done it once. my wife is very eager to find me a girl so we can have a FFM threesome. we have a shortlist of her sexiest and most willing friends in mind, so the hunt is on.

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02 Sep 2012 10:10PM

Anyone who shares is wife isn't a man.

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02 Sep 2012 10:22PM

First let me say congratulations, hopefully you and you wife are on a long road to sexual fun. My wife and I did it the same way 12 years ago and still have fun with my buddy to this day, if not more fun. You, your wife, and your friend should set outside the bedroom rules first. For instance no private meetings without you. Talk to your wife about the inside the bedroom stuff. Try not to be too critical or take offense. Theres things that happen in the passion of the situation that will just happen. Have fun with it and talk about it the next day, when emotions arent involved. If all goes well, eventually you wont care what happens in the bedroom cause you're habing too much fum. Good luck

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02 Sep 2012 10:50PM

Grouplover, its funny I had a MMF threesome with my wife and a guy we knew a little. I figured it would be better if we did it with some one we may not see again. But then they became friends after and it messed with my head. I wish we had done it with a more trusted friend who I knew would never try to 'steal my wiffe' and that would have been better. The thing is I totaly know what you mean. I watched her jerk him off and suck him and him fuck her ass... and that turned me on. But when they kissed the one time, I had to put a stop to it. It freaked me out. like Julia Roberts says in the movie Pretty Women, kissing is very intimate and personal.

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03 Sep 2012 9:58PM

yeah, my wife and i agree it'd be foolish to become friendly with the guy. so we won't call him again, and she has no interest in ever seeing him.
we spoke about what had bothered me, but having had a few days to think it all through i'm over it.
in the end it was hot, and we now know what other rules to add for next time.
no biggie.

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03 Sep 2012 12:38AM

It's not unusual for couples to have a "no kissing" or "nothing intimate" rule,especially early on. There HAS to be trust there. As long as you both trust each other it will only get better.

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03 Sep 2012 1:40PM

Before I got engaged I used to frequent a swinger website. You would be surprised at how many couples are interested in it. I would do it at least 2-3 times a month. Some had rules about kissing and a few about anal. With one couple we played around for 3 hours and then all curled up in the hotel bed and slept until morning...kinda weird but nice.

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