hey guys. i posted about a week ago about the possibility of having a threesome with my girlfriend. me and her finally talked it out and she's very excited. we wanna try both a MMF and a FFM threesome. the second girl for the FFM we got figured out, the problem is i don't have many guy friends. so we're stuck on how to find a second dude for the MMF. anyone have any ideas on how to find someone? obviously it'd have to be someone who's cool about it, and isnt gonna be immature or deuchy. what does motherless suggest??
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16 Nov 2011 10:45AM
follow the good advice here and you'll end up alone while your GF and the other woman are living together with the guy your now looking for... my 10 cents of advice
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16 Nov 2011 10:59AM
OP here: haha, i kinda get what you're saying dude. my guess is that 90% of the guys, (i say guys cause i'm sure even the women here are fake) have barely left their mother's basement long enough to pick up more doritos and mountain dew. let alone fucked a woman... so i guess i should be asking, "is there any sites where i can speak to other swingers who've done this before?"
i'm not afraid of losing my girlfriend, we have kid. and if you knew my wife you'd know she's not leaving me for anything. not ever. that's the one thing i'm certain of. i've never been so open and honest with someone like i have with her, she knows all my dirty secrets, my past, my tendencies, and she accepts them all. i trust her a million percent.
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16 Nov 2011 12:09PM
well i say fuck you. you ask for advise and than say we are all fakes any way. so fuck you asking us for advise. i hope whoever it is you find she drops your sorry ass.....if you yourself are even for real. dick
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16 Nov 2011 11:03AM
That's a real high-class problem u got there my dude! Since u trust her so completely, does she know any guys that she's wanted to fuck? There's yer MMF threesome--good luck!
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16 Nov 2011 11:40AM
yeah i told her to think of a guy she knows, we could meet and see how him and i get along. so i hope it works out well. anyone else got their 2 cents to put in? any opinions are welcome
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16 Nov 2011 12:06PM
Find a stranger dude for at least the first time.
Might run into a lot of awkward scenes if it's someone you or her or both know and will have to deal with again.
Especially if it doesn't go as well as you hope.
Do the CL or personals thing. Just get to know him well enough to be sure he's not an axe murderer, and make it clear it's a one shot. you can always get get more contact info if you decide to contact him again. Keep all the control you can.
Don't bring him to your house the first several times.
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16 Nov 2011 12:49PM
Why not have one of the girls that may join you bring a guy of theirs ?
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17 Nov 2011 2:08PM
OP here. that last suggestion is pretty good. thanks.
and to those saying to bring in a stranger, my girlfriend has guy friends but she never sees them. only contacts em on facebook. so i dont care about the afterwards akwardness. my problem with a strangers is that you dont know them at all. and i wanna keep control of the situation. there can only be one alpha in the situation and since this is my girl, i figured it has to be me. last thing i want is some dude i dont know, breaking the rules we set down, then turning the whole thing into a fight.
thats why i think one of her guy friends would be ok, she's got good judgement, and she doesnt talk to deuchy guys. some nice geeky dude would be ideal i suppose.
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17 Nov 2011 2:10PM
OP again, the hardest part i suppose would be finding a guy who wouldnt consider the whole thing "gay" which is pretty absurd. so maybe finding a couple would be easier? i know for the FFM we decided on this girlfriend of hers who she's had sex with already, so no akwardness there. and the chick is pretty sexy and kinky, so i'm down like a clown charlie brown.
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19 Nov 2011 1:31PM
ask your gf...she already knows who she wants stupid probably already fucking him
