Boards - confessions - I confess I've lost interest in my wife. Just got to the stage where I'm too lazy and can't be bothe | MOTHERLESS.COM ™

3

Anonymous

@confessions

25 Apr 2017 2:16PM

• 890 views • 0 attachments

I confess I've lost interest in my wife. Just got to the stage where I'm too lazy and can't be bothered anymore. Sex with my wife has become so boring I'd rather be on my own for a wank. I asked her and asked and asked her for some certain things I liked and she pawns them off and says we'll do it the next time. I've never asked for anything crazy, just a little bit of kink, like some stockings and hi heals for example. Asked her one time would she dress up with fake tattoos she started accusing me of wanting to fuck other women.

Our sexs involves me licking her out until she's cums, then I have to fuck her until she cums. There's fuck all in it for me. I can't even finger her she doesn't like it, she doesn't let me eat her pussy from behind, now she doesn't like my cum on her body, the list goes on.

She'll give me a blow job but have to cum into a fucking tissue and wash it first. So I'll wake up in the morning lying there with a hard on then I get the old "go clean" I have to get up and wash it if I want a blowjob, im sorry but the mood is gone. I've had a shower before I've gone to bed that night how bad can it be?

I hope some day I catch her fucking someone else, I won't be mad I'll say fair enough, I'm now going to get all the pussy I can. That would be my best case scenario at this stage.

reply favorite add to gallery permalink Share

Replies 20

0

Anonymous

25 Apr 2017 4:25PM

This is so common . And why I think marriage may be a bad idea. Maybe staying married is a bad idea. I don't know the answer , but when your miserable ??

reply permalink parent Share

0

Anonymous

25 Apr 2017 4:40PM

Sounds like you need a man to come turn her into a proper slut

reply permalink parent Share

0

Anonymous

25 Apr 2017 4:58PM

Would that man be you big boy? You're welcome to come and try, she's probably a lot better looking than you're used to.

reply permalink parent Share

0

Anonymous

25 Apr 2017 5:17PM

Man I so feel your pain... Reading what you put sums up my wife and sex life too and it fucking sucks...

reply permalink parent Share

1

Anonymous

25 Apr 2017 5:29PM

I had a buddy go through the same kind of issue with his wife, so he asked me to text her as if it I was a stranger and texted the wrong # to see if the new attention from a new man would put her back in the mood. So I downloaded an app, so I could text from a different number and not be recognized, and did it. I sent her a nude pic with no face exposed, and we started chatting, and sexting, trading pics and videos, and 3 days later my buddy said she was so turned on she fucked his brains out. I still text her from timeto time, and he sends me pics of her as well. It was hot for all 3 of us, and she never found out.

reply permalink parent Share

2

Freakyfun

View posts View profile

25 Apr 2017 5:40PM

Yeah, my wife always gets frisky when she's got a new guy hitting on her too.

People get bored with the same thing all the time

reply permalink parent Share

1

Anonymous

25 Apr 2017 5:46PM

Yes sir. So does mine, my wife really enjoys sexting, it gets her extremely turned on, so about every 2-3 months she will find a new guy to sext and trade pics with for a few weeks. And lets me do the same, she loves reading textsI zend and receive from another woman. We are always lookimg for new men and woman to chat with.

reply permalink parent Share

1

Freakyfun

View posts View profile

26 Apr 2017 10:42AM

Well, get an account so that you can pm me her number.

reply permalink parent Share

1

Anonymous

26 Apr 2017 1:29PM

You have a message from me in your in box. FlHotwifeCouple

reply permalink parent Share

1

Anonymous

26 Apr 2017 1:26PM

Totally: that was me until I suggested opening up the marriage, now my wife is a freak in bed. "fuck my pussy" - she says shit she'd never say. She knows I have a GF on the side and she wants to have one too but not my GF because she wants things separate. To all the people bored with your marriage, it doesn't have to end in divorce, you just have to find what works, open marriage worked for me. I cum in two woman and it's fucking epic. My girlfriend is all like "you know you have what every man wants right??" I do - but the drama can be intense. Just make sure to keep the ladies in check ;)

reply permalink parent Share

0

Anonymous

25 Apr 2017 5:59PM

My lady lost interest in sex then I suggested her trying a gangbang at first it was no. But now she fucks between 4 and 16 men in one session.i love watching her become a real whore.

reply permalink parent Share

0

Anonymous

25 Apr 2017 6:12PM

I would say that she is keeping you down sexually as she is getting some serious cock on the side and doesn't need you sexually.

reply permalink parent Share

1

Anonymous

25 Apr 2017 8:09PM

At least you are still getting some action. A good chunk of us married guys have wives that barely want to do anything anymore.

reply permalink parent Share

0

Anonymous

25 Apr 2017 11:04PM

costumes

reply permalink parent Share

0

Anonymous

26 Apr 2017 6:32AM

OP: some are missing the point here, the thing is she will never refuse me sex I can have it anytime I want. She always gets cums a minimum of 2 times she's content. The problem is gotten boring for me.

Now I'm going to starve her out, hopefully she look else where, because if she does it will set me free.

reply permalink parent Share

1

Nylar

View posts View profile

26 Apr 2017 1:13PM

I would give up on the notion that she would seek sex elsewhere, lol the get out of jail free card is a fantasy. If you want to look elsewhere do so, don't wait on her so you can justify it better.

I have been in a relationship where sex was so boring that it turned into a chore, like what you are going through. My big difference was she was a prude, help her masterbate them have sex in the same positions.... gets real old after a few years.

Have you expressed this to her? Like sat her down and really had a talk or just tried things in the moment? Your getting BJ's which is a huge perk and if she is asking for a shower, is hygiene an issue (do you sweat a lot)? As guys we tend to look at sex through our eyes. If we go down on a lady and she is not fresh and clean, we tend to just power through it because... hell we are getting laid. That's typically not the case for a woman.

Your going through the same steps during sex, have you tried to vary your technique, could be that she is bored too. The oral from behind I would overlook, a lot of ladies think of the worse case scenario when you get around their anus.

reply permalink parent Share

0

Anonymous

27 Apr 2017 1:16PM

I'm of the opinion that women have some rather nasty fantasys that they typically keep to themselves . Especially good girls raised to wear modest skirts and keep there knees together. My good little prudish church going wife went right along with me when I took her into the woods , put down a blanket and stripped her . Her church pussy was soaking wet and she cummed twice. She was raised never to have mixed swimming & she had never wore a bathing suit in public because it would show her church body . I got her a one piece suit took her to a pool out of town and walked her around in front of other husbands and teenage boys and then took her out to the deep water and slide my hand between her legs and masturbated her in sight of anyone who my be watching. I found I got passed my boredom by enjoying getting a good church to cross her boundaries

reply permalink parent Share

0

Anonymous

27 Apr 2017 1:03PM

After several decades you can get bored with your job,your house, your same old car , and the same old saggy tits and pussy. Unfortunately no one ever told me about this boring part of getting married. And knowing in most divorces you'll likely lose half of everything you worked for. And unless you have money you'll likely not get any young pussy. I've known two guys that stayed married and just went out & got them a gf. And when the wife eventually finds out, she can choose to go or stay.

reply permalink parent Share

1

Anonymous

26 Apr 2017 1:20PM

Honestly, she most likely is fucking someone else from the sounds of it. You need to talk to her about opening up your marriage so you can get some side pussy. I did it and my GF fucks like a porn star. She does everything the wifey won't and more. Albeit she's a bit possessive, and jealous - I can deal with that by keeping my GF in line to the fact that I am married and that shit isn't changing. Go, talk to your wife - tell her you want an open marriage, she might surprise you.

reply permalink parent Share

1

Lifeis4Living

View posts View profile

27 Apr 2017 7:07PM

You might think it's you who has gotten lazy but it's probably a bit of both, I've had a couple of big discussions with my wife, one just 2 days ago. I'm in a similar situation, she's just lazy as fuck, zero enthusiasm, doesn't get wet for me, sex is basically a chore. Doesn't cum without using a vibrator, usually quiet as a mouse.

On the flip side, I get sex once every couple of days, she's happy to suck my cock although won't swallow, I have to finish on myself or something. She's not that bothered about having an orgasm, it's like once I've finished, we roll over and sleep.

I can pile in the effort, but the end result is basically the same, so I end up just not bothering. For the first time in years I am essentially losing my sex drive with her. I thought it was me, but I slept with other girls and realised that its not me, it's her, all you need is a little fucking reciprocation and suddenly everything is great again.

Anyway, after the discussion, all I get is "I'll try harder", but does she? does she fuck. A friend said "Why get married if you're not planning on having kids?", I genuinely don't have a good answer.

***--Life is for living, sometimes you just gotta do what feels good--***

reply permalink parent Share

of posts