I have been dating this woman for several months she has 2 daughters one 5 the other 7. Tonight I was at her house and she did something she never has before. She was cooking dinner and asked if I would help her out and give the girls thier baths. I didnt tell her but I was reluctant to do this. I eventaully said ya sure and took the youngest one into the bathroom and got her out of all her clothes she was really cute and while I have seen nude girl in pictures and paintings this was the first one I had seen in person and first one i ever had my hands on to give a bath. I did it and it was over pretty quick and my saving grace here was she didnt think anything abuot it although I did find myself looking at her all over. I got her dressed and brought the second one in and as i was getting her naked I could tell she looked some different than the ther one not so much more like a woman but her shape was different ..leaner, cuter more defined. I found myself looking more and more at her ass and pussy and washed them more than I had the other one. When I washed her hair I had her standing up so as i washed and rinsed her eyes were closed and i got some very good looks in.
When it was all said and done I found myself somewhat arounsed but not to the point I wanted to do anything to them. When i walked into the kitchen my GF kissed me on the cheek and said how were the baths. I said well they are all clean and she laughed and said i bet some parts are cleaner than others and kissed me again. Now I fond myself wondering what it was all about? Did she want me to do things or see them for entertainment?
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You're being tested, asshole. You are on the road to failing that test.
She probably taped it and is emailing the FBI now, you idiot.
So she asked me to wash them I did and nothing more and she taped it to send the the FBI? Doesnt make any sense siince I didnt do anything other than wash them
the first person on this reply, you're a fucking idiot. what the fuck would the fbi do when she point blank said go wash my kids, and thats all he did. parents give their kids baths all the time, it is kinda part of being a parent, so do babysitter and such. are u really that fucking retarded? if so, please please go get ur face bit off by a drugged out zombie homeless guy, please.
"she has 2 daughters one 5 the other 7"Okay, Okay! Next!
What?? Are all you fuckers DUMB? The only person (besides OP) who makes any sense is the guy in the second response.
This isn't a TRAP you fucking morons. Jesus H. Hopped-UP Christ on a Pogo Stick. EVERYTHING with you fucktards is a trap... or Chris Fucking Hansen is "on the way". Goddamned it already- enough!
He's been dating the girl for months. She asked him to help with baths... perfectly fucking normal request from a woman who trusts him. She makes a suggestive comment. It could be a twisted bit of a joke... you know how some people have that "sick" sense of humor. OR... it could've been a joke intended to gauge his reaction secretly. Either way, it's too soon to tell.
Right now... don't read anything into it. Just be cool about it. It's actually OKAY to joke about it back to her. If she meant nothing by it and was just being darkly humorous, she'll appreciate that you are in on the 'sick' joke that you may have touched her daughters. People with that kind of sense of humor LIKE other people with the same sense of humor. And... if she DID mean something by it, you've subtly signaled you're up for whatever she has in mind.
Now then... if she's truly just kidding... then you've done nothing wrong. I'd go on the assumption she meant NOTHING by it. Play it safe and hang back. If she asks for MORE baths over the next couple of weeks, go ahead and oblige. Don't be overly eager... but don't shy away from it either. Just be matter-of-fact and the job done. Wait for her reaction. If she keep up with the dark humor... reciprocate lightly. If she stops, YOU stop, too.
If she keeps up the dark humor and she starts to intensify it... it's fair to ask her about it. Wait until you're eating her pussy and she's just cum (get at least one under your belt). When she's just cum ... work in a little joke. Say:
"I've been thinking about doing this to you all night! I have been really horny lately... especially tonight! Ya know, baby... seriously BATHTIME isn't making it any easier for me. Every night I wash the girls I try to look away but ... I dunno... I think it's making me hornier than usual. Maybe I shouldn't be in charge of baths anymore!"
That does several things:
(1) She's just cum so she's in the mood to be a little more open with her thoughts. If she's letting you "play" with the girls... she'll let a clue slip.
(2) You've let her know seeing the girls is making you horny... BUT...
(3) You've also let her know that bath time is tough for you. And you've volunteered to take yourself off bath duty. You've painted yourself in the correct light... the unwilling bath giver who certainly doesn't want to have impure thoughts about the girls. If she's OKAY with you having those thoughts... she'll let you know right now.
Don't pay attention to these ass clowns on here. Use your head. Nothing has really happened yet. It could just be a twisted brand of humor some people have. If so, no harm and no foul. If she MEANS something by allowing you to perform the baths, you will be able to ferret this out of her and take the next step.
Keep us posted OP.
=The Guru=
She trusts you to bathe them and you are about to betray that trust. No joke is appropriate and you've read something into her comments that was not there. Look all you want but be damn sure there's a wash cloth between your hand and any part of those girls you shouldn't be touching or you're going to lose a girlfriend and your freedom.
Now, if you REALLY want to get horny, sniff their panties just after they take them off.
You fucking fag... seriously? Don't touch but go off like some douche and sniff the panties? I hate you fucking panty sniffer assholes... such pansies.
The OP isn't BETRAYING jack fucking shit. You aren't reading. He's asking for advice. And... it's absolutely possible the GF has a dark sense of humor and is simply teasing him. In such a case, it's okay to tease back. WAIT for a sign from the GF that she's giving you the "okay" to do anything else.
Ignore this OP. Trust me.
And to the panty-sniffing douchebag (probably from the UK... all the panty sniffers seem to be from the UK)... STFU. You don't know what the hell you're talking about.
this poster is obviously handicapped, by the fact that the better part of him trickled down his mother's leg at birth.
Random insults about the British are obviously out of envy for our fine country and people.
As to sniffing little girls knickers, (panties for the American literary challenged) this is not common in UK. We prefer little girls bicycle saddles.
I lived in the UK, some nice people and some assholes, people like you are in the asshole catagory. Just like in any other country you have nice people and you have assholes, why is it you only get the assholes who want to put others down. You could learn something from the nice side, why not try that instead?.
I'm not from the UK. Pheromones are powerful and can be present at that age. Since we're talking panties and not tighty-whiteys, I am not a fag.
Any woman who has a "dark sense of humor" that includes joking around with her boyfriend about him being turned on by her BLEEP daughters has major issues. There is no such "teasing" and he should not "tease back." And a sign that it's OK do something else is NOT a get out of jail free card once she decides he's molesting her kids.
Look all you want. Fantasize to your heart's content. Take a little sniff of the panties to add that dimension to the fantasies. BUT DO NOT TOUCH THOSE GIRLS!
If the temptation is too much simply bow out of bathe time by saying, "I'm not really comfortable bathing them. Let me finish cooking supper and you take care of that." If she persists with this, then chances are she's pushed more than one former boyfriend down this road and is bordering on pimping out her children in return for your love.
I'd fap to naked pictures of them right now, but touching them is unacceptable. Don't do it.
Op really isn't doing anything wrong, he was asked to do something and he did it. His biology just kicked a little and he ended up noticing what any MAN with a fucking set of BALLS would. A girl on the way to becoming a woman...and really since we spent CENTURIES banging chicks around that age or close to anyways, it is kinda ingrained in the genetic code.
That being said, OP, guru is right, I've tried to think of something more to say to it, but I can't he's covered all the bases and has the BEST advice I've ever seen really on the subject
ask the mother to bring the girls in to watch while you guys fuck
afteer reading all the flaming and the so called advice i feel compelled to add my 2 cents worth. It sounded (from the way you quoted her) as if she wasnt setting you p to be caught and get in trouble, it sounded more as if she was offering you the opportunity to in fact not just wash but to enjoy it is well. I think the next step will be that she continues to ask that of you and i say just enjoy what she offers you. Possibly in the near future she will open up to you about the fact that she too "enjoys" giving her girls baths, and possibly allow them to be involved with you and your gf. She may have been offering you something that she in fact already does to them both.
this is a very sensible response, having been in a vaguely similar situation, i can attest that this is exactly what she meant by that last comment she made about some areas being cleaner than others, that's exactly what she meant to convey. i don't see any ambiguity here, so there is room for progress.
this did not happen at all..
op is just fabricating a storie to get comments to jerk off to..and you retards fall for that time after time!
IF this actually would have happened..do you seriously think that he would write and ask such a stupid thing? no..he would bathe the girls over and over again..jeezzz..
Some of you have far too active an imagination. Too much time reading erotic, looking at porn or browsing the threads here at motherless has convinced you that every parent is fucking their child and wants someone else to do it too, that small children want to have sex, and that anything a person says is some sort of innuendo.
my ex wife and i were both into very young girls. never did anything sence we divorced before we had children. this could just be a lil joke. but the way the ex wife and i "came out" to each other about this was very slowly. lil jokes, questions and hints. just play it cool and see where it takes you. good luck!
Exactly... play it cool, take it slow. NO matter how you feel about young girls, we all know how you're SUPPOSED to feel. We all know the approved answer.
So if your GF is coming out to you, it's going to be slow. And to the person who said anyone with a dark sense of humor has serious issues... get over yourself. People joke about sick shit all the time. When I was a kid we told jokes about Helen Keller. Dark humor is natural for some people and it doesn't make them bad people.
Anyway... play it safe, OP. But see what the GF does and be open. Your best bet is to MIMIC her. Do what she does and act as she acts. This is good advice for a host of social situations and it's especially good for this particular situation.
Let us know how it all turns out!
My gf called me at work today asking me to pick up the girls and give them thier baths and she will pick up dinner on the way home. Im still trying to figure out why she keeps asking me to do this. Wish i could be sure of her intent but I will give them a bath for her.
Tell the seven year old you haven't done this very much, and you want to make sure you're doing it right-- "Does your mommy do it different than me?" kid'll straight up tell you what's what.
or for that matter, take it further: "Hmm, doesn't your mommy like giving you baths? I wonder why she keeps asking ME to do it... what do you think, sexy?"
"Is your pussy clean enough, or does it need more work?"
"should I clean inside your butthole too?"
"Your butt is SO cute! I just wanna kiss it!!"
"Aw man, i splashed water all over myself... maybe I should just strip down and get in there with you..."
get creative
Hi OP...
This is a good turn of events. DON'T QUESTION why she's asking you to do it. Just go with it in a very matter-of-fact manner. Do as you're told and don't read anything into it. I wholeheartedly agree with the guy who suggests you ask the 7 yr old if "this is how mommy washes you". He's right- the girl will spill if your GF does anything 'different'.
Keep us posted on any more comments or little "hints" the GF drops. It's definitely too soon to make a determination yet. However, at the very least, she's signaling she trusts you with her daughters. That's good for your relationship with her... anything else is premature.
Play it cool... don't question. Just bide your time and let us know if any other hints come out.
= The Guru =
i pretty much agree, although i don't think it's too soon to make a determination yet; i mean, just compare what she has said to what would be said by a non-interested person...no innuendo, no leading remarks, so i'd opine that he has received quite clear signals that she welcomes further proceedings.
this is a rather common phenomenon amongst single women with children. They are so desperate for companionship that they feel the need to entice their suitors with either the idea sexual dalliances with their children or an actual blind eye to what ever you want to do to them.
exactly, this is not uncommon, and it provides a real opportunity if handled correctly.
although they often do a quick 180 when they don't think they have to entice the man any more.
i'm not sure why you'd say that, what would be the basis for the 180? if the fellow is into it and the mom approves, there would most likely have to be an overriding outside influence to cause such a drastic change in attitude.
A drastic influence is not necessary for a drastic change. Merely the conclusion that manipulating him isn't her most-profitable (emotionally or otherwise) course of action any more. Meanwhile, she builds up a storehouse of potential value to reversing herself on everything and blaming him (lawsuits, "poor me" family sympathy and gossip, etc.) to be "cashed in" at will.
The OP is in a dangerous situation here. She -will- up the ante with this ambiguity, suggesting/inviting him to do "more", leaving him more-deeply at the mercy of how she decides tomorrow to characterize him and the history. This is her path to power over him and she sees that as clearly as he doesn't.
Unless you've been in an analogous situation, there is much here you are likely to miss.
" Merely the conclusion that manipulating him isn't her most-profitable (emotionally or otherwise) course of action any more"
sorry, that simply does not make sense. if she thought it was fine at the outset, the only thing that would change that mindset would be something drastic. it requires an unusual, shall we say, mentality to conclude this type of behavior is acceptable, and that mentality is not so easily swayed, just ask any psychiactric professional.
women do not, one day, say to themselves, "ah, hell, you want sex with my kids, no problem" and then the next day consider that a horrible prospect unless something drastic does happen.
I think we're in general agreement here, just you aren't seeing all the implications of your own position. The type of person she needs to be to allow it is, essentially, sociopathic. He needs to ask himself how much he trusts a sociopathic person not to turn on him, report him, and disclaim all knowledge of her involvement, when and if it suits her. How unlikely it would be to suit her in the future is no more remote than the likelihood of finding a different boyfriend might suit her.
well, i would contend that there is a difference between a sociopathic personality and an unstable personality. one pathology is not a reliable indicator of another. i'm not asserting that if the mom exhibits these characteristics she's more stable or reliable than one who does not exhibit them, only that the fellow has no reasonable expectation of inconsistency from her merely because of her unusual permissiveness regarding her offspring.
Well, he may be basing his perspective on his own social experiences, and not really comprehend the rock-stable motivations of a sociopath toward their own personal interests, regarding which his apparent "mutual relationship" with her may be quite irrelevant--having already been put into an "as long as I'm getting what I want from him" mental compartmentalization. And, as another poster noted, he's probably not the first guy this little play has been enacted for.
ok, think about your last sentence there...if that's true, and something untoward happened to some previous unfortunate who had been given transitory permission to enjoy the kids and later was somehow removed from the equation, then why would the mom still have custody of the kids? in the ensuing investigation, it would have come out that the mom was, at least initially, complicit in the activity, and therefore the children would have been removed from her oversight.
ultimately, one side wants to believe one thing because of a bias towards the relative morality of the situation, and the other side wants to believe the opposite for the opposite reason. conjecture regarding the mom's motivations won't resolve the stability issue; she must be sounded out.
Why would they be removed if she simply lied entirely about having any knowledge of it? Where would the proof of any statement even arguably untoward be?
If she acts in mock horror to what she previously encouraged, she, the mother and the woman, will be believed. The man will not.
This is all very interesting, but haven't any of you actually met a real woman?
Only asking because if there is one thing I know about women it's that they are notorious for changing their minds about anything for any reason, rational or not. Also they are excellent at turning around a situation they started and twisting it to make it all your fault.
She may well be perfectly OK with you looking at her daughters now and might even be into the idea of taking it further, but when one of the girls confides in a schoolfriend and they tell another who tells the teacher, who tells a social worker who tells the cops, then it's a sure thing that she will lay all the blame on you and pretend to be distraught that she never suspected that you were a pedo.
i'm fairly new to this site, what does it mean when people write bump?
Is the 7yr old a retard? What 7yr old isn't capable of bathing herself?
You are an idiot. Lots of little girls are given baths or have thier hair washed for them when they are even as old as 10 or 11.
So you know 'lots of little girls'? And you know 11yr olds that are given baths? Fuck you, asshole. You have no clue what you are talking about. It's your wishful thinking. So you jerkoff to the thought of bathing an 11yr old girl, that doesn't make it fact.
i have to agree, most children are perfectly capable of bathing alone by age 4, and running their own bath by age 7. I personally knew how to bathe myself by the time I was in Kindergarten, and I'm of less than average intelligence. If this mom wants you to bathe her 7 year old, something is up
Not the same guy, but I have to respond to this, as my friend's little sister was bathed until she was 12. She was a spoiled little thing, sassy but cute. Her parents bathed her because she didn't want to do it herself. It happens.
i think it's a sort of cultural difference. Are you by any chance European? In America's puritan morality it's hard for me to imagine a completely healthy(no physical/mental handicap) girl being bathed after starting school, let alone toward 6th grade aged. I don't think it's wrong or anything, but just saying that it's very, very odd.
If by any chance you are American though, I have to seriously reevaluate what I know and understand about my own people.
Y'all are some shitty ass parents. I'm a better dad than ALL of you. I wash my daughter's hair and help bathe her and she's 12. And she helps clean daddy too. That's cause we love each other and care. Bath time in 15 minutes.
....... HERE WHAT YOU WANT TO KNOW!!!!!
..................YOUR A LUCKY GUY WHO IS SEEING 2 YOUNG GIRLS NUDE / Giveing them a bath as long as the OLD girl does not say anything my hands will be all over her body But do the same thing to the OLD too as your doing to the OLD
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I KNOW BECAUSE I HAVE HAD IT HAPPEN TO ME WITH MY GIRLFRIENDS DAUGHTER she was OLD her mother works night & sat. & sun she was off on monday & tuesday so i was home with the OLD every night
She just ware a T SHIRT at night no underware lay right in front of me with her legs wide open were i can see every thing Her CLIT - PUSSY HOLE - BUTT HOLE no more than 5 feet from me she ack like she was asleep were i have to take her to bed my hand go right in her pussy & finger slip on her clit slip in her pussy hole before we make to her bed
one night she telling she was not asleep
she wanted to see what i do with her
Well i had lick on her pussy / fringers her pussy [ got ot all the way in her ]started putting 2 fringers in it / fringering her butt hole / had rub my dick on her clit about 20times / try to get her to suck it but never work out / I dont have a big dick wanted to try getting it in her never did at that time
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WE STARTED PLAYING WHEN SHE WAS 10 1/2 yo ....we did it for all most 4 years and her mom wanted sex from me ;;;;;;; AND DAUGHTER WAS BETTER AT SEX & BJ's THAN HER MOTHER WAS we were fucking all most every day we take shower / baths her mom was gone at night WE HAD SEX ALL OVER THE HOUSE
SHE WAS THE BEST SEX I EVER HAD IN MY LIFE
I FILL EVERY HOLE SHE HAS and she love it
THEY MOVE OUT OF STATE have not seen her for 3years
i hope the updates are that the mother and him are busted sick dogs
Well, I hope he busted in them, while the mother watched, and took pics for us sick dogs.
