i use shuffle, it's slow as fuck but has quite alot on it.
i get to know them a bit then pull the whole
"i'm bored :( wanna play a game :D ?"
she'll usually say yes, talk about what to play for a while then make the decision to play dares. keep it clean for a while then start getting into it, start with flashing etc.
get's fun pretty quick.
i am however, a pretty attractive young guy, which helps alot in that case.
but good luck nevertheless.
