I am 35 years old and living in America and i met an Indonesian girl ( 29 years old) through my Professional life.The first time we met we went for dinner and she kind of wanted to go to my hotel room ( i was working out of town ) and pretented to be cold but was very reserved at the same time and did not give me any indication that she wanted to get closer.I only got to know her a few hours before so i did not attempt any moves sas i did not feel any sign that she wanted me to make a move.
A few days later she was travelling for business in my home town and she made contact with me , so i met her at her hotel we visited the suroundings and after she wanted me to sleep in her room but she mentionned may times ''as a friend'' , i ended up staying at her room in the only bed with her.There was some cuddling but no sign from her that she wanted me to go further.
To make a long story short , we ended in bed another 4-5 times , i eventually got her to see her nude , i had oral sex on her but she had no reaction what so ever wether i was touching her , licking her , caressed her.She was as cold as a block of ice, so i decided that maybe going further would make please her and she told me that she was '' virgin ''.Once she was crying after i told her that i did not beleive that she was a Virgin and she came up with a story that she thought somebody came during a night and made love to her and she lost a virginity without knowing.I did not see her after that B.S. but somehow stayed in contact with her .
During our previous conversation , she was mentionning on many occasions that because of her business travelling she had male friend in the U.S.A. , New Zealand , Europe .She also mentionned that the company she was working for the Owner was Taiwanese and that all of the meeting she had with him were done in a Hotel room near by the company..
I was always curious why she acted this way by giving me mixed signals about her intents.
I taught that maybe it is cultural.
Anybody who had an experience with Indonesian girls or any Indonesian people can help explain to me her behavior.
Just curious to understand
