She's not that bad. I was expecting one of those before and after photos of a person before meth and after. If she's changed this much, then it's always been in her. Look at her family. Her parents. Everything starts in the home. If the parents were either big partiers, she'll most likely be one, because that's the example she had. Conversely, and interestingly enough, if they were a non-presence in her life when growing up, that's very fertile ground for daddy issues, rebelling, etc. If they were a non-presence yet super strict, then of course she's going to strike out like she has. It's funny that her name is Hannah, because my ex-gf is pretty much the same story from being really really really really...REALLY innocent, to having done a 180 in the time we were together, and all the while, I was noticing that she was going that way, and a lot, if not all of it, was because of her genes. She couldn't escape them. And I have such specific examples of how she was exactly like her mom and dad, it's not even funny. I totally expect her to turn out like her mother, who, to put it lightly, would fit right in here, and she's probably a verified member here anyway.
So, yeah, it's unfortunate, but this and many other situations I have witnessed in my own life have shown me that one cannot escape their genes, really. So, if you want to find a good girl, put the family under the microscope, and don't be content with their outward appearances and the accolades they've won in the community. Dig deeper. It'll be worth your time and effort, and help you decide if you want to invest the time in the person, or if that investment would be a complete waste of time.
