I confess that my wife, due to an overall bitchy attitude and a complete dismissal of sex, has pushed me to celibacy (for the past six months). �However, since she's been EXTRA bitchy as of late, she's pushed me to an initial search for a mistress. �
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Okay dude, I'm gonna tell you this from experience and you can take it or leave it. A devoted mistress is great to have, but in the long run it's not worth the drama than invariable ensues, unless you can find the rare one who's willing to be a permanent girl on the side and will never have any expectation of you leaving your wife for her. Plus, more often than not, you wind up getting emotionally invested in her even if you start out just using her for sex. If I had it to do over again, I'd just go get the occasional random piece of ass instead of having two long-term relationships to manage.
PS - I should note, for what it's worth, that my wife has never been more sexually eager than when she knew I was fucking somebody else. It was pretty much an open competition to see who could milk more jizz outta my cock. Kind of a fun year and a half.