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Anonymous

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28 Jun 2013 1:04PM

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I had a date. I don't have dates often. People always say "you have to escalate" in the pickup community. They don't tell you how, when and where in short terms, instead they write lengthy texts about it nobody can remember. And worst of all, WOMEN CONTRIBUTE NOTHING. They manage to destroy every sexual tension, and I am not even allowed to complain because I won't get support from men or women, all I get to hear is, what a loser I was. No wonder that people ran amok in Littleton back in the day, I am not surprised.

I confess, that I do not know how to escalate when I am in public. I cannot remember those lengthy texts which tell you what to do. What is sexual escalation? In simple easy feasible terms please. Something a normal person can actually remember under pressure.

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Anonymous

28 Jun 2013 5:56PM

You're a step ahead of me since I don't even know wtf 'escalate' means, lol. But I'm smart enough to gather that you want some female companionship. Do you want a gf or just some sex? As to the former, remain single as long as you can. A gf is not something you should ever seek, but something that you're afflicted with, like a broken leg. You won't die from it, but it will change your life for awhile.

Now wanting a little sex is a problem every guy can relate to. Some guys are just better at schmoozing the ladies (yes, I said schmoozing) and get first dibs. For the rest of us, it's just a number's game. In real terms, think batting averages for ML pitchers. They may be great in one area of the game, but the hitting always eludes them! Hope that helps (though I'm sure it didn't)...

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Anonymous

28 Jun 2013 8:48PM

It didn't help.

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Anonymous

29 Jun 2013 1:04AM

hehe, did you feel my analogies were at least apt?

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Anonymous

28 Jun 2013 11:19PM

The fact you even want to complain about it is what makes you a loser, lose the self-pity.

Escalation is essentially just assuming you are going to get what you want and asking for it specifically (or at the very least closer to what you want). So instead of asking a woman if she want to go out for coffee, ask if she wants to go back to your place for drinks.

Here's the thing, if you escalate you are going to fail much more often and that part of what you obviously need to do. You need to fail so often and so fast it quits meaning anything to you.

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Anonymous

29 Jun 2013 1:16AM

Nobody can use anything of your cryptic writing.

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Anonymous

29 Jun 2013 4:22AM

That was pretty clear. If you can't understand it, then the problem is with you.

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Anonymous

29 Jun 2013 6:05AM

If it is so clear, then describe it in your own words. I don't expect a reply as I already know that you cannot do that.

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Anonymous

30 Jun 2013 3:27AM

It means you can't comprehend English.

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Anonymous

30 Jun 2013 1:05PM

Speaking of which, did your mother learn english in the meantime? Last time I checked she was an illegal immigrant.

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Anonymous

01 Jul 2013 1:51AM

Wow, that's the best you could come up with? I feel sorry for you.

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Anonymous

01 Jul 2013 2:58AM

Different guy, I don't agree with half the PUA bullshit but this guy was being pretty clear. You want it dumbed down? fine.

Straight up hit on girls. Will you get shot down? Yes. Get shot down till you aren't so crushed by it anymore. Sometimes you won't fail. But the not being so pathetic about it? Will change your vibe and you'll both fail less and care less when you do.

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Anonymous

29 Jun 2013 10:25AM

PUAs are losers. All of them. You trying to be one and failing makes you a failure among losers.

You know what's better than remembering complicated procedures about how to trick a woman into pity fucking you? Being an interesting and genuinely cool guy. Women love that shit.

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Anonymous

29 Jun 2013 10:58AM

Like being an interesting and cool guy just happened out of the blue. You have no clue fucktard shut the fuck up.

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Anonymous

29 Jun 2013 11:06AM

lol the op here obviously has no social skills and cant take constructive criticism. He is destined to pay for sex the rest of his life. Man the fuck up!

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Anonymous

30 Jun 2013 1:16AM

You mean like the constructive criticism in your reply? I cannot find constructive criticism because you are probably british.

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Kingofvashon

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29 Jun 2013 12:30PM

Yeah. Youve over thinked this x100. Just go out, hang out with her, make her laugh. Just have fun and shit will go from there. Wtf is this esclation shit? quit reading shit on the internet and GO OUT AND GET SOME REAL EXPERIENCE!

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Anonymous

30 Jun 2013 1:17AM

Like I made this up.

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Anonymous

29 Jun 2013 5:53PM

Son, your best chance to "escalate" will be with Rosie Palm and her five little daughters.

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Anonymous

30 Jun 2013 1:17AM

Father why did you touch me when I was eight?

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Anonymous

30 Jun 2013 1:43AM

Because you had to be in bed by nine!

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