i need advice from experienced men. im about to have my 1st 3some with me,(a guy) a guy friend, and a female fuck buddy ive had for a long while. im really excited but nervous. whats the best way to start? what if someone cums way before the other guy? i need advice!! p.s, she doesnt do anal so there wont be any dp. what are good positions??
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08 Jun 2012 4:51AM
relax take it slow and don't stress....if someone cums he cums....more to the point focus on her make HER cum! MFM is about the woman so eat her while he sucks her tits kiss her and suck her tits and rub her clit while he fucks her...then let her suck one of you while the other fucks her...and if you're not a dickaphobe let her suck you both at the same time...get over your dick touching another dick...if it's inside a hot womans mouth its hot!
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08 Jun 2012 5:02AM
oh im not scared of a dick. in fact i had him send me pics of his cock to send her. i got the better dick anyway lmao. great advice though. thanks!! i think ill let her suck both of our cocks, then since ive been fucking her for a long time, ill let her continue sucking me while he fucks her then well switch. what if shes riding him? what do i do then? film? lmao
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08 Jun 2012 5:22AM
She doesn't do DP...apparently none of you have thought about double dicking her pussy at the same time.
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08 Jun 2012 8:44AM
The first girl I ever did this with, we had a guy friend that we'd always have threesomes with, and he'd always cum really fast. Her favorite was DP, but we wouldn't get more than a few pumps in before he was unloading. It was hot but frustrating at the same time.
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08 Jun 2012 5:23PM
People think sex is over b/c someone cums? No. Sex is about being with someone (or others, in your case), just having fun and enjoying yourselves. In some MFM, it can be both guys tag-teaming the girl to make her cum as much as possible, using her like a little whore. One guy blows a load, the other guy steps in. In other MFM, both guys might use her at the same time. Really, you just have to guage the situation. It's best if you all sat down together, had some drinks, and talk over how you want it to go. Set some ground rules ... eg: you said she doesn't like anal. Ok, great. Does she want to be dom'ed? Does she want her hair-pulled and ass slapped? Can you be rough with her? Can you guys use degrading language with her? What kind of experience is everyone looking for from this? It's best to get it ironed out in a pre-coital convo, otherwise you guys might start getting rough with her and she might get freaked out. Or, opposite, she could start slapping someone or calling you guys names, and you guys may get confused or freaked out. Overall, sex is just a time to enjoy yourselves. There's times I fuck my gf for 10-15 minutes, but while she cums multiple times I don't. I'm getting old. I just like to take a break, especially in the summer when it's hot. We lay around, chat some, then we fool around a bit more, which usually involves me holding her down while I spank her ass and talk dirty to her, and after that I get an erection and bang her brains out some more. There's been times when I've fucked my gf multiple times in the evening w/o getting off at all, but then I wake up at 2am horny and cum in her within less than a minute. You just go with the flow. As long as everyone's happy and having fun. Joke around, dabble in some BDSM fantasy, let her act like the whore she fantasizes about being, and if/when you cum you cum. No big deal. Soem guys with high sex drives might cum multiple times in a threesome. But, just b/c someone cums doesn't mean it's over. If she's a good little slut, then she's gonna make sure she's still available to fuck to get you guys off even if she's getting sore or has cummed to her limit. Really, the woman can be the annoying aspect of an MFM threesome, b/c when some girls cum, they just totally switch off and everything's done, which can leave the guys hanging. If she's multi-orgasmic and loves to cum and get used, then you'll probably have a great time. But, just b/c someone cums doesn't mean the parties over. Hang out, lay around talking and caressing while naked, then get an erection again and go to town once more.
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08 Jun 2012 8:40PM
yeah..I posted the second comment..no if someone cums so what...don't worry... keep eating her kissing her fingering her fucking her.....then the other guy will get hot again...remember it's NOT a porn movie...you aren't entertaining an audience...you can all take a break..have a little drink..roll around in bed togerher...talk..then next thing you know it's on again....just relax and be happy you get to do this! My new girl only will do MFF 3somes...
