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23 Jan 2015 11:41AM

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I need some help. My gf and me have been dating for over 2 & 1/2 years and she recently has gotten into bondage and wants me to try it. The problem is I'm not controlling at all and I need some help. I've already liked pushed her up against walls and forced her to suck my cock, and stuff like that, but I was wondering if any of you had any particular ways or experiences that you could share with me to get better at doing this. Thanks for any help.

Just some more background, we are both 18 and don't have our own place, so we can't do anything too extreme just yet.

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Anonymous

23 Jan 2015 1:23PM

Shit, when I was 18 I was happy just to get laid!

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Anonymous

23 Jan 2015 6:09PM

Times have changed I guess since you were younger, I've been getting laid on at least twice a week since I was 16.

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duane12260

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23 Jan 2015 7:16PM

Ahhh, youth...

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Anonymous

23 Jan 2015 10:08PM

Cuff her, gag her and then fuck her however you like.

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Anonymous

23 Jan 2015 10:19PM

Have her dress in short skirt with no panties then spread her legs while you lick her or finger her. Every time she trys to close her legs u stop bend her over and delivery 10 spankings. Would u be willing to email me sinr of the postures she practices for u?

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Anonymous

23 Jan 2015 11:07PM

I was thinking of doing what you suggested actually, but knowing her she won't be trying to close her legs, she will be begging for my dick instead. And possibly we don't really take pictures (she doesn't feel comfortable with them) so idk if I'll be able to get any, but if we do, I'll post one or two here in the thread.

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Anonymous

16 Nov 2015 3:56PM

I understand your concern. I've been there my friend. I have a few things for you to try. First sit down and discuses Each others darkest and wildest fanatics . As well as Paine limits. But you need to make shoure that during your roil play that it is ok to take it to the limit and usually much farther than you would ever imagine . How ever to make both of you feel much more relaxed and safe it is very very important that you have safe words . one may be for stop its over let me go and the other may mean give me more . These safe words can help to keep the roil play going with out feeling that you are getting the wrong message from your spouse. You need to find out if she likes choking or spanking hair pulling and so on. Then you need to find out what her tolerances are . Some people get turned on by pain . Some buy toys. There is nothing abnormal nor normal as fare as human sexuality. The key is communication. There is a book out called 101 nights of grate sex. It was one of the first books I would suggest for you to try. You will find out things about each other you never thought you would. Should you like the advice I have given and you would like to hear more you can contact me at [email protected] . good luck wickssn

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Anonymous

30 Mar 2016 9:59PM

Don't try to be someone you are not. It will only leave you both unfulfilled and cause stress. Find your mutual interests and maybe play some tie up games with each other. Have open communication and don't be shy about open with her about your skills, interests and/or what you enjoy and don't enjoy.

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Anonymous

07 Feb 2018 12:27AM

The best I can tell u guys is that u need to both sit down and look into all the different types of bondage and all the different things u can do with bondage and work out some things u both like and want to try then try them from my personal experience with being a dom in bondage it is really fun to spice up ur sex life even my wife can agree and me and her aren't much older then yall

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25 Feb 2018 6:56PM

What I did with mine was to have her bring up porn videos she wanted to watch and took my clues from that. The secret for me was to make her feel comfortable about it so she would open up and oh boy has it paid off for the both of us.

The more comfortable she is the more she'll be willing to try/tell you.

If your girl ever wants to talk to a girl who also enjoys being used just DM me and I'll have my girl reply.

Best of luck.

-Jon

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Anonymous

04 Jan 2023 5:07PM

Ask her what are all her sex cravings even the more absurd, start doing all that to her, go to a sex shop and get some different toys, ask if hurting excites her, role playing, the best way to get her crazy for anal is with lots of lube but just insert the head in her...in and out...maybe takes some time, 3,4 or five and then she will ask you all cock inside...slap her ass medium force when having her from behind, slap her face medium when she is sucking ur cock and see if she enjoys, talk dirt to her and force ur dick to her throat, cum in mouth and face and command her to swallow the load....fuck her in public places, from behind is easier to go all inside pussy and ass, go to the beach and do her in the water, people dont know if ure just playing because is too bold to b real and she will cum like a roar....do whatever comes to mind and learn from her reactions and say.

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