I confess that I am completely accepting of my significant other�s gender fluidity� But sometimes all I really want is a WOMAN. Not to say I want a different partner, because I don�t. Not at all. I want MY S.O. but I want them in a more assertively feminine manner. This is only sometimes, mind you, so one of my favorite things is when my S.O.�s �girl days� line up with me wanting a woman. There�s something about the womanly essence that really grabs my attention. I�m a pansexual man, but every now and then I get the worst cravings to indulge only in someone else�s femininity. I have fantasies about woman that I can�t see working with men or anyone/thing else I may be attracted to. I love my S.O. no matter how they identify and that will never change, but I really can�t help myself on this matter.

I'm 40 years old and have no idea who I am sexually. I still define myself as straight, but in reality I'm a pansexual; living a lie. I'm attracted to ALL women. When I say that I include trans women. Unfortunately, I don't have the courage to be who I am, so I live in the shadows, on the margins. A normal straight guy with a girlfriend and vanilla sex.

I wish I could really explore myself. Watersports, pegging, and threesomes with older couples are things I want to experience. Unfortunately, all I have is this site.

I confess I've written a few posts over the years asking for advice on my love life. Sadly, most situations have fallen through before the other person ever finds out I'm a MtF transgender who identifies as being a lesbian. My current predicament is quite different though: not to long ago on FB I came across the profile of a beautiful, curvacious, redhead. One of our mutual friends had commented on one of her statuses and it showed up as he liked this post in my news feed. Just the tiny half inch by half inch profile pic was enough to leave me speechless; I finally believe love at first sight is a real thing. After mustering-up the courage to send her a friend request she accepted and we chatted back & forth for a few days and have a lot in common.

I asked if she wanted to meet, we made a plan, etc; we had an amazing time. When we were hangin out some subjects came up, she is pansexual and I revealed myself as being trans/lesbian. She's very accepting and caring, we even talked about having me over the next time she was having a girls night with her friends. I did kinda spill the beans that I would like to date her, and she said she wanted to hang out more before she decides if she would like try.

We had girls night this last Friday, and I had a lot of fun just being able to be "Lauren" with her and her friends. I want to ask her again about trying a date but don't want to scare off a friend who's been so supportive. Also I'm worried that if I don't make a move soon someone might swoop in.

I confess I still wanna fuck this girl again.. but she’s got a damn boyfriend now..
the struggles of a pansexual hoe 💖💛💙

Wanna see her naked?

Hey All,

I've been reading the confession pages here for a few months now after a friend gave me the link..

I've my own confession..

I'm an 18 year old girl. Pansexual if it makes any diffrence.

Over the past year I've gotten really in to humiliation. degredation and some play rape. I jkeep imagining scenes with my bf or other people in my head, makes me so horny but even though my bf is in to bdms I'm kinda scared to talk to him about it incase he's too hard core for it.
Instead I've been going to random sex chatrooms and finding strangers to tell me what to do on web cam...

So this is the senario thats been in my head non stop lately.

My boyfriend is mad at me, for some reason or another, maybe I haven't been putting out enough lately. So, we're arguing and sudenly he hits me and not a playful slap, he hits me hard in the face. I'm kinda turned on by it but I get mad anyways and start shouting. He hits me again and tells me I'm nothing and a whore won't talk to him like that. I ask how the fuck I'm a whore and he rips off my top, I try to put it on but he hits me again and tells me not to move...
I'm scared now, so I don't as he takes the rest of my cloths off. The blinds are open in our apparment and the neighbours across the way could see in if they wanted, he catches me looking and laughs at me telling me that the whole world is gonna see what a little slut I am.

He doesn't do anything for a while, just stares at my naked body. I'm still to scared to move, but eventualy ask what the fuck he's doing. He tells me to shut up and just rub my clit. I oblige.. embarsed though. He tells me to finger my ass and I refuse.. He grabs a kife, a large on, slams me down on the table so I'm bent over, ass on display. First he slaps my ass cheek with the side of the knife, it stings. Then, without warning or lubrication, holding my back down with his arm, he begins to shove the knife handle in my ass. The handle is stainless steal, really cold. I yell from the shock of it and I struggle. He tells me if I keep pissing him off he'll slit my throat. I start to cry, terrified. He takes it out and not gentely. He turns me over and spits in my face and tells me I'm a filthy fucking slut. Hits me a few more times. I'm still crying. He looks proud of himself as he leads me to the long clear window and presses me against it. I feel so exposed. I don't see anyone watching but I can't be sure. Again, he waits a while befor he moves on.

He grabs me by the throat as he leads me to the bathroom. I think he's going to make me shower in front of him and I'm right. He tells me to wash the filth off of myself. When I finish he tells me to kneel down in the shower, I do what he says, at this point I'm terrified.. broken.
He opens his ziper and takes out his cock. Then proceeds to piss all over me, I'm shocked and he can tell. He pisses all over me, in my hair, on my face, my tits.. He even aims for my pussy. He says, I told you that you were filthy.

He walks out leaving me alone in the shower to cry.

That's all I have so far.. can anyone help add things to this? I'd love to develop the fantasy.

I'm a male, mid 20s, from Europe, looking for an online female companion who is:

(*) into watersports
(*) into masturbation (not just doing it but genuinely getting off on watching / doing with or for someone)
(*) exhibitionist
(*) enjoys her porn - likes to share and get off to
(*) occasionally enjoys a leash and collar
(*) has other kinks / likes to experiment :)

Preferences would be: caucasian, under 30, no extreme fatties, pansexual.

I am:
(*) easy going
(*) into casual conversation and regular companionship too
(*) looking for online fantasy and RP by means of IM and email, possibly webcam and mic too

The am-nots:
(*) not fat lol
(*) not looking for a relationship
(*) not drama prone
(*) not a sub
(*) most deffinately NOT into poo and non-consensual

If you enjoy anal fingering, that's a big plus. Contact me by sending me a PM or a shout on here, I'll reply in PM asap.

This isn't terribly salacious so I'm sorry but at least it's true, so there is always that.

I have been going out with my boyfriend for 18 months and I love him, I really do. Prior to him, I believed and practised polyamory but he is very monogamous so I've stuck with that. I like having sex with a couple of men at once but I've had a very unconventional past and can rely on just my memories to get me through.

However, I'm struggling with not being with women any more. I would identify myself as pansexual. My boyfriend gets excited at the idea of me being with women and my history with them but he falls at the last hurdle of us taking it further.

I love swinging clubs, group sex and all of those related things... I'm completely willing to sleep with no other men but my boyfriend but I feel that he would secretly like to introduce a woman into our sex life but is a little bit intimidated by someone other than him getting me off.

If anybody is in/has been in the same position, I'd live advice on putting his mind at ease. Sensible please (ha).

Wanted to add... the strange (?) thing is, he isn't a prude. Quite frankly, I've fucked a lot of people from different ends of the BDSM/Vanilla spectrum and my boyfriend is very innovative and very exciting. He likes the idea of multiple people pleasuring me but not the reality... should I just leave it? I would like threesomes etc but if I have to go without it, I will.

Sorry for rambling. I'm drinking Vodkat! (Cheap) :)

what does pansexual mean?

I confess that I'm a guy who's confused about his sexuality. (Long post. If you don't care then just call me a fag and then exit the thread, or kill yourself, whatever works best for you).

I'm attracted primarily to females, and don't find the male body particularly attractive, but if the right sort of skinny little guy offers me his ass, I'll take it. Lubed up it feels good around my dick and it's good to have a little teen boy to fuck around with along side the cunts I have stored in my contacts.

I don't find males attractive physically, but if a teen boy, usually barely legal to about 19, or a guy who at least looks that age, and preferably emo-ish sort of style, if a young guy like that acts slutty and feminine around me, and pushes the right buttons, he can seduce me, and as long as I get to be the one fucking and getting my dick sucked, I'm willing to fuck him.

I have no interest in being fucked up the ass, and I prefer not to have to suck a guys dick, and prefer not to kiss or make love or anything like that.

I actually got drunk one day and experimented. I'm a buff dude, and 80% of girls tend to prefer skinny pussies like the ones I usually bang for breakfast, and gay guys tend to enjoy bulkier dudes.

So anyway, I went to a gay bar, and many masculine guys came to me but I just pretended that I was taken, and then this perfect little guy came up to me, about 5ft 5, no more than 120lbs. He was 19 but looked much younger. We talked for a few minutes, and then he was rubbing my leg and giving me a certain look and I was powerless to resist.

I took him back to my place and it started off me just bending him over my sofa and pounding his ass, but he wanted to ride me so I let him, and the little faggot rides dick like nothing else.

I usually prefer to be dominant, but It was like a force of nature pushing me down. I came so hard in his ass and the orgasm was far better than anything I've experience with a woman.

Since then I've been shunning my friends and going to gay bars in secret, and picking up young looking boys and some shemales. I'm getting a reputation as a "honey" LOL. Whatever that means.

Anyway, what am I sexually? I heard someone say Pansexual, but not so sure. I think i'm just turned on by a fantasy, or could I be bi-sexual and just attracted to guys for their body language or something like that?

I'm currently trying to decide whether or not to act on a unique, traveling camshow idea. If there is a woman who has time to travel this spring/summer, is naughtily adventurous, and enjoys the thought of being both behind and infront of the camera (possibly masked if privacy is wanted)....perhaps my decision becomes excitingly easier :-) Mid 30's, no kids, single and uniquely minded.

Not homosexual, bisexual or pansexual. Not judgemental and realize I'll get responses from both guys and women. Just ask that guys don't get all fucking gross Lol. Apreciate it. Stay awesome and open-minded everyone :-)

Hi there I'm a pansexual 40 yo male and just wanted to share that I just had my ass filled. With cum from a nice big cub in his 20s and he filled me up good and then I cleaned his cock I used poppers and that just makes me wild. Those who want to degrade me and humilate me well that just won't work cause those things turn me on and here are a cple pics of my cumm filled ass