A gamer friend of mine called me up, he wanted me to go with him to do some live action roleplaying for Halloween. I told him I wasn’t interested, that I was just going to chill at home with my wife. Wife told me to go with him and that she was going to chill with her girlfriend anyway (she’s bisexual). I shrugged. No big deal, it was a pretty boring Halloween so far.
I arrived at my friend’s house and followed him to some rented out warehouse.
“We’re playing Vampire the Masquerade, there are a lot of sexy women here bro, so if I disappear I’m nailing one of them,” he said with a smirk. This peaked my interest, and rightly so. I would come to find out that geeks are more open (or perhaps desperate) for sex than your average person at a bar. It was surreal.
My friend helped me make my character sheet. I had reservations about this, it seemed very silly and immature for a guy of my age to be doing.
“Remember, you’re Bruja – the Anarchist Vampire class,” and he rambled off a bunch of shit that I can’t even fucking remember. Red wine was prevalent. There was a $15 fee to enter but you got a plastic goblet and as much red wine as you wanted. I looked around, women in tight black corsets with milky white cleavage, black lipstick – some fat, some skinny, some voluptuous – all sexy as fuck.
I was dressed all in black, hair slicked back – and had a full goblet of wine. The wine was pretty sweet, I liked it. If I didn’t watch myself I could easily get hammered.
My friend knew people at this event, so he decided to flutter off and do his own thing leaving me to pretty much stand there and do nothing. I didn’t even know where he went off too.
I felt really fucking stupid.
“What do we have here,” a skinny guy said, eyeing me, “a piece of shit bruja out of his cage? Well? Speak when spoken to zealot!”
On his side he was flanked by two very sexy women. One was completely dressed in a black flowing dress while the other wore a red and black corset; a black miniskirt and thigh high fuck me boots. Damn.
“My apologies, I’m new around here. A friend left me to wander around and I can’t seem to find him.”
Well, that was the end of my short life as a vampire it seems. This guy was some super powerful ‘elitist vampire’ and knew I was a total newbie at the game and decided to kill me for experience points. Something I found really funny was the “rock paper scissors” game that determined if you hit the other person or not. Anyway, I lost and I was slaughtered. The girl in the miniskirt frowned, shook her head and then winked at me.
“Out of character: You can create another character,” the guy said as he walked off with the two hot ladies.
I did, I created a new character - but I decided to fill my goblet again and just sit down and do some people watching. A few people wandered up to me and talked to me.
One thing they would say if they wanted to talk normal to you is “Out of character before saying what they had to.”
Across the warehouse I notice a woman pull a tit out and a guy sink his fake vampire teeth into it. Interesting. Two vampire ladies were holding each other close romantically and kissed.
I looked down into my goblet of wine, thinking how much of an asshole my friend was for ditching me.
“Out of character: Are you still dead or did you create a new character?” I heard a soft woman’s voice say.
I looked up, it was the hot woman with the red corset. She had short black hair, pale white skin with dark red lipstick. Her tits were popping out of the corset with a passion, it was definitely too small for her. She was stunning. Her eyes were a cold blue, fake contacts but hot as hell. She smiled at me, showing me her damn near authentic looking fangs.
“Out of character: I made a new character, damn those fangs look real!” I said, blushing a bit because she obviously caught me checking her body out.
“I’m a oral hygienist, I work at a dentist’s office and crafted them myself! A lot of people here get me to make them for them, I charge from $300 to $500 depending on what people want done,” she said looking into my eyes. Then she added, “they’re sharp enough to actually work too. Glad you made a new character, otherwise I wouldn’t be able to play with you!” She laughed.
“Name is Megan,” she said smiling and shook my hand. I told her my name too.
She flicked one of the teeth with her pierced tongue. I wondered what she wanted from me.
She grabbed my hand, “let’s play.”
We walked around for a few hours, she introduced me to different people. My friend was nowhere in sight so I asked Megan about him.
“He’s probably involved in the blood orgy,” she said, “he usually is. I don’t like that aspect of it. I’m kinda shy and like my fucking to be a bit more personal, one on one… you know?” This is when she turned and looked directly into my eyes, it was a ‘fuck the shit out of me’ look and there was no denying it.
What in the actual fuck did I stumble into here? A LARP swingers group??
Her cobalt blue eyes pierced my soul as she looked at me. Holy shit, she wanted me to kiss her. My heart was beating insanely. My mouth met hers, our tongues intertwined. Instinctively I reached for one of her breasts, so soft and perfect. She moaned. She grabbed my hand and led me to ‘her lair’ which was a room (an old office?) that didn’t have any windows and a door that could be locked. She shut the door and lit a candle. Her hands fumbled to unbutton my pants; she pulled my pants and my underwear down and was immediately on her knees taking my dick inside her mouth. The teeth were sharp as fuck. Not going to lie, it hurt.
At that moment, guilt set in but not for me – just because I thought she needed to know that I couldn’t date her because I was a married man. Her mouth moved up and down my shaft, those teeth lightly grazing my cock, she’d bite down a bit sometimes.
“Out of character: I’m married,” I said as I gasped.
She stopped sucking on me, “Same. Here, in this world – you’re dead as am I, relax and let the world of the living slip away.” She gripped my cock and started sucking the tip, and flicked her piercing on the head. I wanted to bust a nut all over her pretty face, but I held off. My hands fingered through her silky black hair, I pulled her up to meet my lips once again. My hand went under her skirt, pushing the thong she wore to one side and I plunged a finger into her wet pussy. She moaned and bit my neck. That would leave a mark. I gripped her breast with my other hand and pulled it out of her corset. She undid her corset and let it fall to the ground, she slid out of her skirt and thong. She was naked all but the fuck me boots, her body was that of a goddess. Perfectly proportioned, I’ve never met a woman that I’ve fucked in real life that measured up to how perfect this woman was. She had a little tuff of black hair above her pussy, her skin was so milky white – it wasn’t makeup, Megan actually didn’t get a lot of sunlight.
She laid down on the ground and spread her legs, inviting me in. I mounted her missionary as she wrapped her legs around my back. Each and every thrust I felt her moving in synch with me, perfect rhythm and timing. Her soft tits were giggling with each thrust as my saliva dripped into her mouth with each kiss and lick. She grabbed me by the neck and pushed me to the side and mounted me. Her tits bounced up and down on my chest. I grabbed her beautiful round ass cheeks and spanked her as she moaned, riding my stiff cock. I grabbed at her full breasts and sucked on her rock hard nipples. I could feel her wetness dripping out of her pussy down my balls. She rode me for a good 20 minutes and suddenly started shaking, bucking and convulsing with one of the most intense orgasms I’ve ever witnessed. She screamed with pleasure.
“Holy fuck,” she said, nearly breathless. Megan started bucking on my cock again, “your turn.”
She leaned down and kissed me with her soft red lips, then bit my neck again. I could feel her fake porcelain teeth puncturing my skin and I moaned. Her sharp blood red nails dug into my sides as she tried to hold me even closer. She felt how hard my cock was, and knew I was about to explode.
She looked into my eyes, “it’s okay,” she whispered, “I want your energy inside me,” and that did it for me… WAIT… ENERGY?!? I literally began to ejaculate load after load inside her as she bucked and fucked my cock like a pro. My stiff cock jumped inside her, hot pulsating shots of cum spraying deeper and deeper within her vaginal cavity. I let out a guttural grunt and moan with each and every ejaculation. Her pussy gripped me, like it knew exactly how to make me feel, like it knew how to keep my cock spraying cum for an eternity. I couldn’t stop cumming. Even when she dismounted me, my cock was jumping and cum was still dripping out of it. I can’t remember cumming so hard, ever. Who was this chick??
I felt her mouth take my cock, she cleaned me off. Megan rested her head on my chest.
“I’m in an open marriage in the land of the living,” I said, my body trying to get me to shut down and sleep.
“I’m not, I’m married to an asshole cop who is a drunk,” she whispered, “he fucks other women I’m sure of it.”
“My wife has a girlfriend, she says I can have one too. I mean, I know we just met and we just had sex…”
“I’ll give you my email address, not my phone number. God help you if we fall in love. I’d be that home wrecking bitch all you bastards are afraid of,” she said laughing.
“I won’t leave my wife, but I’m sure she wouldn’t mind you at all.”
We got dressed. We were only fucking for about an hour and people were still about. Megan showed me where the ‘blood orgy’ was taking place, and sure enough there was my friend – passed out with two naked women next to him. I laughed.
Megan looked at me, “what’s so funny?”
“Who would have thought that going to a roleplaying game on Halloween would end in getting laid and witnessing an orgy. You guys know how to party that is for sure.”
I kissed Megan goodnight, she held me tight and told me she didn’t want to let me go. I left my friend Kevin behind to sleep between to naked ladies. What an evening.
I got home and my wife was waiting up for me, “damn, you had fun!“ she said laughing and looking at my neck. “They think they’re real fucking vampires or something?”
“Maybe, but there sure was some real fucking going on,” I said. My wife smelled me, she could smell Megan’s perfume. She reached down the front of my pants and felt my cock, still damp from fucking and smelled her fingers, then licked them “I’d eat her out, she tastes nice,” my wife said kissing me on the lips.
“Yeah, it turns out – geeks have fun after all…”
I really want to date Megan. I don’t have a girlfriend, but Megan… oh Megan, I want more of her.
Not only did I get laid, but there was lesbians and everything under the sun going on at this event. It sparked my intrigue. Best. Halloween. Ever.

criscokid 2 hours ago
Married couple; she's 55, 6' tall, curvy, big tits, tight pussy. He's 47, slim, clean-cut, bisexual total bottom. Seeking a total top bi man, or couple m/m or m/f) to party & get down. She's a voyeur and likes watching m2m and being in the mix as well. NON-cuck couple here, thanks.

We are low-key, easy-going, squeaky-clean, passionate and uninhibited. We hope that you are as well 😉 More wild than mild but grounded and sane. We have pics available.

Into; lots of oral, massage, fingers, toys, bb for him, pic/vid, moderate b&d, role play, parTy, 420, smokers. We're also very open to your ideas, communication is essential so don't hold back 😃 We can get into most scenes, but please:

NO PISS, SCAT, PAIN, BLOOD, UNDERAGE, ANIMALS, VOMIT or FOOT FETISHES

Pros, attitudes and pushy, impatient people, pass us by. Not necessarily for today, we seek quality and chemistry over expediency. We'd like a regular playmate. We do not play seperate.

So my bosses son has been working in the office with us for about a year now, he is a good kid and is working his way from the bottom up. We had our office party a couple of days ago and he got a little drunk and confessed to me that he is gay and afraid to tell his father about it cause he doesn't know what he will say, I wanted to tell him so bad that his dad is bisexual and loves to have his cock sucked by men all the time and I know this cause I'm one of the guys that sucks it for him , just a perk of my job. I should have told him I was bisexual too just to see maybe is his cock as big as his father's, but just don't want to be dragged into anything that happens if it came out about me and him.

We believe, �From small beginnings come great things,� so we are looking for real and genuine people to make casual connections that have the very real possibility of turning into naughty, erotic nights.

About Us: We are two professional people exploring our sexual lives as Dominant and Submissive relationship together. She is in an open marriage and is the sweet Mistress of the couple. He is deeply humbled cuckold male longing to see her pleasured by the right men and women. His role is whatever his mistress deems is appropriate.

We are an experienced couple, and each of us have had separate third party or couple experiences, so you�re most certainly in good hands. Intelligent, well-read, quick witted, attractive, non-judgmental adults, we believe in the �Golden Rule� in and out of the bedroom.

Since we are a relatively new couple, we are looking to walk, before running, which means connecting with women and couples for boudoir fun � in both traditional (oral, voyeur, MFF, MMF) as well as light kinky fun (Sub/Dom/Bondage) scenarios. But most importantly, we are looking for drama free personalities, who are stable and comfortable in their own skin and sexuality. Oh, and connecting on a mental level is just as important, if not more,than the physical stuff. Casual, short-term and/or long-term play with a couple or female is in play. Though a single, impromptu night of fun isn�t totally out the question; has to be the right moment in time.

She: Firecracker with dark bedroom eyes, long reddish brown hair and voluptuous curves that you want to hold onto as well as a mouth that can tickle both your brain and, well, you know what else. Though only 5�3�, she�s an alpha female, who�s not afraid to ask for what she wants, but also enjoys aggressive play and submissive antics. Adept with mouth, hands and toys, both men and women enjoy her enthusiastic nature and genuine personality.

He: At 6�1�, he�s tall, and handsome.. An professional who loves seeing his mistress and her playmates pleasure before his own. Never pushy and always submissive, he makes sure everyone is fulfilled. His cuckold nature has him put follow her every word and command.

My Ideal Person: Honest, stable, real people, who are also smart, quick witted, comfortable in their own body and sexuality, and have a positive "we only have 1 life, so what the hell" attitude. We prefer women, men and couples who are bisexual, bi-curious and issue free.

Does not matter if you are single, married or BF/GF outside your marriage, all we ask is you leave your judgment and insecurities at the door and saddle up for some good old-fashioned fun, which means connecting first and seeing where things go from there.

As life-long learners and book sluts, it would be nice to meet individuals who are just intrigued by what�s going on in the real world as they are in the play/online world. For us that mental connection is huge. But we are visual creatures, so physical attraction on all parts (hey, we�re not perfect) is necessary. This means photos are important, for weighing initial attraction as well as for safety concerns.

Could you be are plus 1 or 2 or 3? We hope so.

Absolute no-nos:
Lying
Drugs
Diseases
Hot Heads
Jealousy
Drama Queens
Misogynists
Unsure or indecisive thinkers
Being Flakey

Last weekend I was at a party with my girlfriend and her coworkers and their partners. I was the DD so I wasn't drinking but everyone else was. Getting really comfortable with the other guests at the party and with them getting drunker and drunker there reached a point of plenty of flashing here and there. My girlfriend's boss, a woman named Sonya, was clearly hitting on me and groping me. She was doing the same to every other guy there so I honestly wasn't that special.

Two couples left because the guys were pissed that Sonya was groping them. Another left to fuck. Eventually it was just the three of us. Girlfriend was drunk, stoned and on enough pain meds that she passed out and Sonya and I carried her to the guest room.

Sonya was drunk and playful so we stripped passed out drunk girlfriend naked and played with her body and stripped ourselves naked as well. Girlfriend is very straight, her boss is bisexual. So I spread Girlfriend's legs apart and watched Sonya enjoy herself.

When Sonya finished on Girlfriend she proceeded to suck my dick. Damn her mouth was great. I returned the favor. Eating her out with Girlfriend less that two feet away was so fucking hot. Sonya and I fucked right there.

After cumming inside of Sonya we laid on the floor naked talking and laughing and kissing and touching. Once I had recharged, Sonya sucked me and told me that she wanted to see me fuck Girlfriend. So while she was still passed out, I got between her legs and fucked her and came on her tits and face (she hates that).

Sonya and I laughed and talked for a bit after getting dressed. She made the comment on how she's done a lot of stuff, but raping her subordinate and fucking their boyfriend and then watching the boyfriend rape their girlfriend was a first.

I told girlfriend that I was the one who stripped her and that it was my cum. She wasn't completely happy but didn't care much beyond that. I haven't gotten back with her since, but we are planning to see each other tomorrow night. Sonya and I, however, we've fucked each other twice since then. She's planning a new years party...

29 white guy attractive yet a little out of shape with a nice thick cock to stroke for a guy or a kinky couple around our age or older would be even better seeing how I'm married and my wife's down stairs while I'm laying in our bed wearing these really sexy pink lace panties of hers watching porn and playing with myself, she loves that shit too man she's a kinky lil slutt especially when ww get spun the fuck out and party hard all weekend, got plenty of pictures of her to show off and ability to take more of her if she likes you, were into a lot of kinky aaa shit but nothing underage we don't roll like that and don't bring ur ass around us, if she ain't 18 years of age and older ww don't want shit to do ro with it. I'm bisexual same as my wife hit us up were fun I promise

My best friend, at the time, picked up a slut at a party and decided it would be a great idea to madly fall in love with her. She's a bisexual and there pretty much wasn't a day when she didn't smoke, drink, and fuck. They had an "open" relationship. Mostly because my buddy thought that lead to 3ways with random chicks she would pick up.

In the end the only 3ways she was interested in involved other guys, or 2 other girls.

After he kept pussying out of three ways, like he was going to die if he saw another man's penis, she settled for fucking me, whenever he was at work and we could get together.

She got tired of him and dumped him,and left the state.

Today I ran into her while grocery shopping. She was pregnant, in pigtails, and practically jumped me in the store. I thought I was going to run back to my place for some prego pussy, but her baby's daddy showed up. This guy is a complete tool.
He's trying to stare me down and mark his territory and the two of us are doing our best to ignore him. He finally drags her away and she's "I'll call you"

This dumb fuck has no idea what he's in for.

My girlfriend and I had been dating for several months now, we have been open sexually with each other from the first night we got in the sack. Both bisexual and experienced with the same sex and opposite. We tried doing swapping but didn't meet our needs. So we went for the gusto. Met a nice young, attractive couple (Josh and Kelly) for dinner and drinks. Both nervous about it all, nothing happened the first night. We invited them over for drinks at our place. Started off with some suttle drinking games like truth or dare jenga (personal favorite) and then strip beer pong. During the first few rounds of jenga things escalated quickly. The girls made out once, each couple swapped spit with the opposite partner. Then my girl got it going. She pulls a dare block, asks who is ready for some cock sucking, josh jumps at the sound. So she dares him to suck my cock. He happily complied, it felt amazing having a man suck me in front if my girl. As the night progressed on we got more touchy with one and all. My girl and I orally pleased both josh and Kelly, josh and I got bjs from each others girls. Then we took a small break by playing naked dance central. While the girls was playing I couldn't help but play with my cock. Josh sitting next to ne followed suit, I decided to get the party started. I grabbed joshs cock and started stroking, he repaid the gesture. And then his move, started sucking me again. Soon we was in a 69, this stopped the ladies dead in the game. They watched for a while as their men sucked cock, they probbed our assholes with fingers and then dildos. I got horny as fuck and wanted a cock in my ass. So I got on all fours and told josh to ram his big fat cock in me. As he was plowing my ass in the living room floor the ladies turned to each other and went into a 69 of their own. Next thing we know my girl suggests we move to the bed; I stop and do a quick clean up, as I come out she is getting railed by josh with Kelly on her face! I just watch for a minute stroking my hard cock. My girl tells me to stop wasting a hardon and grab someone, so I grab Kelly off her face and fucked her side by side with josh and my girl. I only go a few minutes before I feel my cum building up, so to make this great moment last longer I stop and tell them let's switch out, I lay on my back and invite josh back inside my ass. Which he happily shoved his big cock back inside me. My girl just giggles she'll be back. She comes back with her strapon, and grabs josh by his hips. Now josh is in the middle, getting his ass pounded while he fucks me. So as to leave nobody unsatisfied during the event, I pull Kelly on my face. She cums quickly at the site of her man in the middle of a fuck sandwich. Her pussy juices were thick and flowing hard core. Someone was stroking my cock (josh and Kelly both were I would find out later), soon josh starts moaning he is about to cum. The ladies debate where he will go, we tell them its at their wishes. No time, he pulls out and cums on my stomach/chest/ and face. Now I needed to cum, my girl jumps on my cock and rides for a few seconds. Then she puts Kelly on me, told me to fuck her hard. I pounded for a few minutes till I was ready to cum. Pulling out my girl takes in my load and we snowball (something we both enjoy and do regularly, especially on road trips...) That was last fall. Since then we have done the foursome thing a few other times, and had even more one on one sessions with either josh or Kelly separate from one another. Loving the swing life.

Hey there everybody.  Fully versatile and bisexual guy looking to party and play.  Located on the west side of Columbus.  Can't host ever.  I will always provide the favors and toys.  Let our kinky sides run wild!!

Posted once before but, was unreadable... So here's my confession again. ...

My girlfriend and I had been dating for several months now, we have been open sexually with each other from the first night we got in the sack. Both bisexual and experienced with the same sex and opposite. We tried doing swapping but didn�t meet our needs. So we went for the gusto. Met a nice young, attractive couple (Josh and Kelly) for dinner and drinks. Both nervous about it all, nothing happened the first night.

We invited them over for drinks at our place. Started off with some suttle drinking games like truth or dare jenga (personal favorite) and then strip beer pong. During the first few rounds of jenga things escalated quickly. The girls made out once, each couple swapped spit with the opposite partner. Then my girl got it going. She pulls a dare block, asks who is ready for some cock sucking, josh jumps at the sound. So she dares him to suck my cock. He happily complied, it felt amazing having a man suck me in front if my girl. As the night progressed on we got more touchy with one and all. My girl and I orally pleased both josh and Kelly, josh and I got bjs from each others girls.

Then we took a small break by playing naked dance central. While the girls was playing I couldn�t help but play with my cock. Josh sitting next to ne followed suit, I decided to get the party started. I grabbed joshs cock and started stroking, he repaid the gesture. And then his move, started sucking me again. Soon we was in a 69, this stopped the ladies dead in the game. They watched for a while as their men sucked cock, they probbed our assholes with fingers and then dildos. I got horny as fuck and wanted a cock in my ass. So I got on all fours and told josh to ram his big fat cock in me. As he was plowing my ass in the living room floor the ladies turned to each other and went into a 69 of their own.

Next thing we know my girl suggests we move to the bed; I stop and do a quick clean up, as I come out she is getting railed by josh with Kelly on her face! I just watch for a minute stroking my hard cock. My girl tells me to stop wasting a hardon and grab someone, so I grab Kelly off her face and fucked her side by side with josh and my girl. I only go a few minutes before I feel my cum building up, so to make this great moment last longer I stop and tell them let�s switch out, I lay on my back and invite josh back inside my ass. Which he happily shoved his big cock back inside me. My girl just giggles she�ll be back. She comes back with her strapon, and grabs josh by his hips. Now josh is in the middle, getting his ass pounded while he fucks me. So as to leave nobody unsatisfied during the event, I pull Kelly on my face. She cums quickly at the site of her man in the middle of a fuck sandwich. Her pussy juices were thick and flowing hard core. Someone was stroking my cock (josh and Kelly both were I would find out later), soon josh starts moaning he is about to cum. The ladies debate where he will go, we tell them its at their wishes. No time, he pulls out and cums on my stomach/chest/ and face. Now I needed to cum, my girl jumps on my cock and rides for a few seconds. Then she puts Kelly on me, told me to fuck her hard. I pounded for a few minutes till I was ready to cum. Pulling out my girl takes in my load and we snowball (something we both enjoy and do regularly, especially on road trips�) That was last fall. Since then we have done the foursome thing a few other times, and had even more one on one sessions with either josh or Kelly separate from one another. Loving the swing life.

I am your typical late 20's white guy living out a pretty good life. Good job making really good money for someone my age. Own my own place and have a nice car. I play adult league sports and keep in decent shape though am no health nut. I date plenty of girls, had plenty of girlfriends, love love love sex with all the girls I have fucked. Have great friends and a really active social life.

Most nights now when I get home from a night out partying and I have a good amount of drinks in me plus maybe some blow, if I am coming home alone I end up coming on here to get my jerk on before bed for a while, a lot of times just to help me come down from being all coked up if it's a weekend night and we were indulging in the fine powder at the bar or club. But lately, and only when I am fucked up, when I come on here I end up going straight to the bisexual MMF videos or sometimes if there is nothing good new in that category I will check out tranny or even twink guys. After stroking for a while, I crave that human interaction so I always now end up moving over to omegle or a similar site and sure if I come across a girl that doesn't skip me, well that is great, but 95% of the time I end up talking dirty with and cumming with other guys. I say things and do things that I don't know where the hell they come from. As soon as I cum, I disconnect from the person and kind of feel guilty about it and then I go to bed and the next day I always ask myself why I did that and say it was the last time, but then I do it again.

When I am sober I have no desire to do it and when I jerk off sober it is always to straight porn, never any pull to the other stuff I look at when fucked up. Going about my day I never see a guy and think "damn, he is hot and I'd like to have sex with him", but I say that to myself about women I see probably 20 times a day. Like I said, I love women and everything about them. I want to be only with a women in a relationship, marriage, etc. But what the hell is this when I am fucked up? I guess maybe I have been a repressed bisexual or have some bisexual tendencies that are coming out now. Just seems weird to me that I have gone through my whole life so far and never would have considered anything remotely like that, and now I do but only when I am fucked up and then feel all twisted about having done what I do.

I get it, everyone will just say I am bi and it's no big deal and I should suck a cock or whatever, or some of you will say I am probably gay, which I know for certain I am not gay. I guess I am just wondering, should I try and repress these feelings? Much like quitting a bad habit, just force myself not to do it anymore? I assume that I can't tell any girls I date because 99% of girls probably would want nothing to do with me if I tell them that I might be bisexual even though I have never acted on it. Like I said, the whole thing is really just getting me all twisted.

OK, that's the end of my rant. Feel free to pass on any advice or whatever if you've gone through the same thing. How you handled it with girlfriends?