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emilie56
Group Member • Nov 23rd 2023
Hi every one

First sorry for my terrible english i use Google trad
I’m Émilie a 26 year old pregnant married woman and i have a question.
I will of course give you more details of my situation later but do you think becoming mum is a reason good enough for being excised, especially if it’s your husband’s wish for according his point on view a lot of good reasons ? And this even if he never referred to this before, total surprise !
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Emelie
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nick2334
Group Member • Nov 28th 2023
well you asked for an opinion... I'll give you an opinion, perhaps ugly and direct. i hope google tralslator work well even when will be converted on your lang.
Given that I believe that anyone should be free to do everything, even chose to be excised, infibulated, circumcised, and everithing, but ONLY if is a proper desire and not a request of anoter person, dont matter who this person is!!!.
No, there are no good reasons to ask a person this, NEVER! above all when pregnant. I prefer dont write what i think about motivation becouse him told it only now, you have a brain use this.
be extremely careful of the person next to you and take control of your life while you still have time.

im here becouse have a little fetish about circumcision in general, but ok when is a fetish, a joke, even a simulation....
i read some people chose to do it really.... i can't understand it, but ok if its a free choice.
But onestly, Would you ever ask a person you love to do this, suddenly and knowing that he doesn't want to suffer it?
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emilie56
Group Member • Dec 3rd 2023
Hi all
hope I will could explain my feeling in English
First I want thank you all for your messages.
Well, we had a big discussion about my possible excision, and I told him I wasn't at all convinced by his arguments, and I didn't see the connection or how it would help me be a better mother.
In fact, it was a big misunderstanding! He .... finally admitted to me that he did indeed have a strong attraction to female circumcision, and that yes, his biggest fantasy was indeed that I myself should be circumcised!
In fact, he'd been looking for a long time for a way to broach the subject, but not in a general way, but in a way that directly involved me. And he saw the pregnancy as an opportunity. He admits that it was completely clumsy and he's very apologetic about it. He said he didn't think I'd go as far as I did, and that his primary goal was to get me to react and start a discussion about it. So he admitted that he'd been sucked and that he should have had the courage to assume his fantasies by asking me rather than trying to make me feel guilty as he did.
At this point I asked him all his others dark fantasies and … was special. Some are basic, or fun, others weird but two keep my attention. Pee hole play and DD (domestic discipline), I’m very curious about too….

Again I want thank you all. I took a risk asking advises about excision in a group pro excision.
I had prepared myself to see that I would actually have to do it, ..... and actually not at all. You have all been wonderful, with good advice and above all kindness. You are truly a great community

For me now the question It's no longer a question of whether wanting to be a good mother is a good enough reason to get circumcised, but if, as a good wife, willing to make this sacrifice for him?
And for that matter, if I were to decide to do it one day, there's a much better chance I'd accept it for that reason.
So now for take the good decisions I need a clear view of all the impacts bads but perhaps goods too.
During my research I made a list of effects of excision in fonction of what is cut. And even found some advantages of being excised
Il will post this list soon and hope you could help me to confirm … or not all this

Thank again.
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declitoriser
Group Member • Dec 5th 2023
Emilie, I think that as a wife and mother, you would be better off without your clitoris. Make sure you have the internal roots removed too, so that you can be certain you will never orgasm again. Just leave the dorsal nerve and bulbs in place.
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emilie56
Group Member • Dec 5th 2023
Hi

Why do you want I go for total anorgasmie ?
I still not took my finale decision but if I want be totally honest with myself I know I could live well without possibility to masturbate and … I think (still not sure) I could andle get less sexual pleasure during intercourse and so mechanicly get less orgasm too. But total anorgasmie is on such a different level ! Not sure I could andle to never be able to relief ever again. Or perhaps their are something Which compensates. But for now I don’t know what or how



Emilie, I think that as a wife and mother, you would be better off without your clitoris. Make sure you have the internal roots removed too, so that you can be certain you will never orgasm again. Just leave the dorsal nerve and bulbs in place.
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Sandora
Group Member • Feb 22nd 2024
Hi every one

First sorry for my terrible english i use Google trad
I’m Émilie a 26 year old pregnant married woman and i have a question.
I will of course give you more details of my situation later but do you think becoming mum is a reason good enough for being excised,
especially if it’s your husband’s wish for according his point on view a lot of good reasons ? And this even if he never referred to this before, total surprise !
See you
Emelie

Dear Emilie!
I am in a similar situation as you. This is what my love asks of me in my relationship
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